First Post!

Hey Y'all! I'm starting this blog because if you hadn't guessed from the title; I'm Black, Gay and a Virgin! I'm really frustrated with everything that comes with being Black, Gay and a virgin. I can't change two out of three and I dont want to, but I'm finding it to be very hard to live my life the way I want it to. I'm not out to all of my family and friends, so I consider myself to be a step out of the closet. I do venture out the gay part of town, I have a few online profiles and I have been to a couple of gay clubs but I'm not meeting the type of guys that I want. I get told often how attractive I am and I wonder why I'm not attracting guys. Is it because I'm black...too gay....not gay enough or can they smell my virginity on me? I just want to know. I'd love to hear what all you guys out there have to say about my situation. You can reach at jamesthevirgin@yahoo.com if you have any questions or have some advice. So pleeeaaase...tell me about it!