1st Date

Hey guys! So I wanted to tell you a little about my first date. So I was in my favorite store with some friends shopping. The guy who was ringing us up says to my friend Crystal, "Is that your boyfriend?" She says, "No, but he's a good looking guy and in another life maybe!" He says, "Oh, he's very attractive...." finally I was like ok let's go. I didn't get a really good look at the guy because I was so embarrased. When we got to the car my friends were like he was hitting on you and you didn't even give him the time of day. I said whatever it wasn't meant to be and left at that. They took upon themselves to go back and give him my number. So he texts me and he wants to take me out on a date. I say ok and I get kind of excited. So I ask my friends if he was cute because I didn't really get a good look at him. They say he was and that eases my nerves a little bit.

So date night is here finally here. I go and pick him up because he doesn't drive and he happens to be in his late 20's. I thought that was kind of strange seeing as I'm 22 and I'm driving this man around, but that's just me. So as soon as he gets into the car I want to end the date. He's not at all what I expected. I didn't find him attractive at all. So we start talking and the conversation is horrible. We get to the restaurant and we sit down. I was so uncomfortable I wanted to run as fast as I could. I stayed and tried to make the best of the situation. The worst part was the waiter who came over to fix the light over are table was way hotter than my date and I think he was hitting on me but of course I'm to dense to realize that at the time. We get our food and I focus on just eating. He's eating and I'm getting more turned off. He's slurping is soup and he ordered pizza. I don't think I'm being picky but this is the first date it would be nice if he tried to impress me. I would do the same if I was really interested in someone. He asks me if I want to go to the beach after this, I politely said no. I don't wanna drive all over the city with a guy I don't even like.

We head downtown and he goes into a store to buy some movies. He says he doesn't go out much and just likes to stay in and watch movies. That's cool I love movies but he's into these old school horror movies. I couldn't relate and I was turned off yet again. The night didn't completely suck becuase I found this great movie I've been dying to see. Boy Culture!!! I couldn't believe it. I was so happy and totally forgot about the horrible date I was on. We buy our movies and go out to walk around. We decide to go and get some ice cream. As we were standing in line I became really embarrassed. There are all these young cute kids around and I am with this guy who I'm not into at all. I just felt out of place with him. We go to order and he knocks over the little menu stand. OMG!!! I understand this was our first date and he was nervous but that was it for me. After we finished I said I was done for the night. I took him home and he lived like 4o mins. away from downtown. He said he had a good time and that we should do it again. I said um...maybe, then I put my hand out and shook his hand to avoid an awkward hug. This was apparently was lost on him. He leaned in and gave me a hung anyway. He got out, I stepped on the gas and gunned it out of there. He texted me the next day but I didn't respond. I dind't want to lead him on and a the time I thought that this was the best way to end things.

Ok, so I after reading this I know I sounds kind of like a bitch! I think we have all had bad dates and my first happend to be one of them. I want to konw what you guys think. What could I have done differently? Have you had a similar experience?...tell me about it!