Ready for Love! Part 2

So I get ready, put on my fancy shirt and my skinny jeans and head out. I let him know that I’m on my way and I like to be punctuall so I get there around 5:55. I call him and he doesn’t answer I text him and he doesn’t respond. I wanted to punch my fist right through my window. At 6:05 he says he’s looking for his wallet and that he’ll be out soon. I thought to myself, you better look amazing when you come out. He comes out and looks ok. He tells me to get in his car because like I said he doesn’t like me driving him around. He knows I drive 45 minutes to and from school like every day so he comes off as very considerate in that respect. I say get in, I’m taking you out! He gets in and he asks are you mad? I said yeah! You took forever getting out here.

I end it there because this supposed to be fun and a chance to get to know each other better. We start talking and he is so giddy! He’s giggling and putting his beanie over his face. Kinda cute! I’m like what’s wrong with you! He says he’s never been taken out on a date before, in such a formal way I guess. I ask him, you’ve had two boyfriends and you have never been out on a date? That’s sad! I was trying to make a point! I wanted him to know that I’m a catch and just what he’d be missing out on. We talk some more and give him the option of sushi or Italian. He picks sushi and off we go. There’s this great sushi place in the gayborhood that I always pass when I’m in the area so I take him there. We walk into the restaurant and he sees the candy dish. He grabs a piece of candy and I say it’s going to ruin your dinner you shouldn’t eat that. Very parental I know, but I was just being silly. He looks at me and starts to unwrap. I let him know I mean business when I take out his hand and put it in my pocket…hehe The funny part is he doesn’t grab another one and looks at me with big puppy dog eyes. Cute!

We sit down and look over the menu. He’s so indecisive but it makes me even more intrigued by him. We order and wait for our food. While we’re waiting, we talk and just really dig into each other. We’re crackin’ jokes on what each other wore on our first date and squeezing each other’s legs. It’s very playful and I can’t help but like him. DAMN! The food comes and it’s not good at all! Seriously I’ve had better sushi at the supermarket. We decide we’ll eat dessert somewhere else. The waitress brings our check and he won’t let me pay. He keeps giving me money and I’m like calm down. We pay and then we leave. We walk to my car and I open the door for him. He’s like what are you doing? I said I’m opening the door for you woman now get in! He laughs and gets in. So, nowadays most people have some form of keyless remote entry but me, I’m a poor college student so I have to open my door the old fashion way with a key. I actually wanted to see if he would reach over and open the door for me like in the movie, “A Bronx Tale”. Two words, Robert De Niro or is that three? Anyway he doesn’t do it. Awwwwwwwwwww! In the movie that’s how the guy tells if his girl is a keeper or not. I’m all about honesty and directness so I tell him and he’s like ok whatever about it. That’s cool. He might not be the one but at least he knows now. We get to the cute little pastry place and we wait in line. While we’re waiting we start bickering a little. He grabs me and I grab him but all in good fun. There were a few guys looking at us like what is wrong with those two. We order and he doesn’t let me pay. We decide to share a cupcake and pick a nice little corner for the two of us. He hates the cupcake and is so made he spent money on it. I tell him that I’ll give him the three dollars he paid if it we’ll make him feel better. He says no he’s just upset because he thinks its false advertising to put such generic cupcakes in a place where there is supposed to be like fresh delicious pastries served. I smile at him and mention how cute his forearms are! Hahaha… I’m strange but they are! I start rubbing them and he’s pulling his arm back finally he gives in and I’m just rubbing his arm. He gets over the cupcake and is playing with the icing and telling me to lick off his finger and I do. We leave and I want to smack his ass so I do.

He screams in pain and I’m like I didn’t hit you that hard. He’s like someone dropped me on my tailbone and it was fine until you smacked it. Ooops!!! I rub his ass and tell him I’ll make it feel better. We decide we want a movie and we drive all over looking for this red box thing. It’s cool though, because we are holding hands and kissing at stop lights. We end up getting “Dance Flick”. I can’t honestly tell you how it was because we were making out and doing other things the whole time. We finish and cuddle for awhile. I get up and head home. The next day he says how he forgot to thank me for a great time last night. Crystal asked me if I had even thought about him saying thank you before that and I said no, it wasn’t for him it was for me. I like this guy and actually want to go all the way with him. My friends say no wait, but haven’t I been waiting? I’m not sure if he’s the “one” but who is the “one”? I’m starting to wonder. What do you guys think? Tell me about it!

VMAs 2009: Where's My Ring?!?!

Hey! Did you catch the VMAs? Kanye needs to be restrained to his seat at award shows from now on, Lady Gaga has lost her mind(loves it tho) and Beyonce is just BEYONCE! Unfortunately, my girl Britney wasn't there but did take home an award for best Pop Video. Congrats to all the winners! Taylor Swift I Love You!

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Ready for Love!

Hello all! I don’t know if anyone is reading this blog. If you are, I would love to hear some of your feedback on my posts. My e-mail is Jamesthevirgin@yahoo.com if you want to shoot me an e-mail.

Well remember how I was telling you guys about how I wanted to go out on a date with Rufio? Well it happened! Before I get to the actual date let me tell you how it all kind of manifested itself. So after our last “date” we agreed we should hang out on Tuesday. So Tuesday rolls around and I send him a text saying are still going to meet up. He says he’ll let me know because he might have to work. I said ok and made my way home. He never texted and I was very upset. I went out with some friends to a kick boxing class and that relieved a lot of the frustration that had built up.

I couldn’t understand how one minute he’s not hearing from me enough and now apparently he doesn’t have time to even send a text saying he has to work. I was just confused. I didn’t think about it anymore so I went on with my week trying not to thinking about him. I was successful for the most part. I even start trying to get to know different guys online like crazy. So Friday rolls around and I head to the gym for a killer chest/shoulders workout and feel very empowered after. I decided I’m going to be the one who determines how this ends not HIM! So I text him saying are free tonight I want to take you out. He doesn’t like me driving or paying for him which is kind of cool, so I knew it would get his attention. He texted me back very surprised and said he would love to but he had made plans with friends so he didn’t want to flake on them. How admirable. ; )

I told him this was a one-time offer and that he’s been a flake with me so he had until 2pm to let me know. In my head I was ready for the let down. It seems that I get down by men a lot just not in the romantic sense but in all areas of my life. I decided if he didn’t respond that I would delete him from facebook, the dating site I had met him on and delete number from my phone! It was 2pm and I heard nothing from him. So first I deleted him from the dating website. I had been going all day by that point so I decided to wait on the facebook and phone deletions : ). Around 2:15 he messaged me saying he could go out. I was relieved because I almost deleted his ass from my life. The universe was watching out for me. I told him that I would pick up at 6 and then I took a nap because all this boy drama has worn this old man out! I started writing about our date but it’s long as hell so I’ll post it later. Here’s India Arie singing I’m Ready for Love, I think I’ll title this post that! She starts off by saying that the song isn’t to a specific person but more to God. I think it just fits my situation because I’m not in love but I know I’M READY FOR LOVE! Do you hear me GOD? Tell me about it.

You Oughta Know

This is for the gays who like Britney! You probably have seen or heard about this by now but I found this high quality vid of the most buzzed about song on her Cirus tour and I had to share. Britney has put a sexy spin on Alanis Morissette's classic break-up anthem "You Oughta Know"! The best part is she is actually singing live and Britney fans, including me, have been going crazy since she has debuted the song. Check out one fan's reaction below. It's priceless!

Confused!

Hey guys! I started my first week at the university this week and it’s been tough but very exciting! I started at a community college and to finally transfer is amazing. I love the school and I’m trying to be very involved in every way I can. Unfortunately I am not able to live on or near campus so I have to commute 40 minutes every day but it’s worth it. It sucks because I don’t I have a job right now so I have to be extremely scrupulous and that means I can’t buy a parking permit which is almost 300 buck, what a rip off. I’ve been parking wherever I can around school and walking in like 80 degree weather its crazy. I had a job interview though and I think I killed it so we’ll see how that all works.

I am still talking to Rufio and things are slowly moving along. We were supposed to go to the park one day and it was hot so we just went in to his house to watch tv and wait out the heat. We ended up making out and one thing lead to another and yeah. He’s such a good kisser! We went to go eat later and then we came back to his house. His dad was outside watering the lawn and turned his back to us as we went in. That was so awkward I almost made a run for it. We went inside and started to make out again. Only thing was we just ate burgers and his mouth wasn’t the best tasting. I intentionally got my burger without onions and rinsed my mouth repeatedly with water because of this. I told him and he was like I’m so embarrassed blah blah blah. But he didn’t go brush teeth. I guess I can live with a little burger breath. We mess around a little more then we cuddle for awhile.

A couple of days later I invited him over because the family was going to be out and I wanted to spend some more time with him. He said is ok if he comes over late. I said yeah because I had planned to go out with friends beforehand anyway. So I get home and I’m tired so I get ready for bed. He texts me around midnight saying he was too drunk and couldn’t come over. I was pissed. I really don’t know where this going and I felt like why didn’t you invite me out with you in the first place. I just feel like all we do is get together and mess around now. I decide to focus on myself that week and didn’t text him back all week. So he texts me Friday saying am I mad? We were supposed to hang out in the morning but I ended up being busy. I told him no why is he asking. He said because he hadn’t heard from me all week. I said I hadn’t heard from him either. I told him we should get together but he had a party to go to that night so I just left it open.

I texted him the next day asking how the party was? He said it was gay! I ended up going over to watch a movie and make of course. I didn’t stay too long because he had work in the morning. We talked a little today and he called me a tease! I told him we can’t have any type of sex until we get tested together. He said that’s ok. While we were messing around I might have made him think that I was going to go down on him but of course I didn’t. Well if he wants it he has to work for it! So yeah I’m confused! Are we dating? Are we boyfriends? Are we friends with benefits? I should ask him but I don’t want to be the needy one who just can’t enjoy things the way they are. I decided we are going on a date sometime this week. An actual date that doesn’t involve his bedroom. I’ll let you know hot it turns out. Tell me about it!