I'm moving on and dating!

It has been a two weeks since Rufio and I have talked so I am over him. I’m debating deleting him from facebook and his number from my phone. I am usually very quick to delete people so I’ve waited but I think I will this week just to make it official. Well I haven’t exactly been sitting around waiting for his call. I met a few different guys online and they looked good on paper so I decided to give them a shot.

Guy 1(Navy Guy)-Is tall, has beautiful blue eyes and is actually a pretty intelligent and funny guy. We went to the movies and it couldn’t have gone better. There is one big thing though, besides the fact he has a dog, he is HIV-Positive. That’s a huge deal for me because I want to feel comfortable with the guy I’m with and I just won’t be with a HIV-Positive guy. I kind of new before he told because his profile didn’t say he was negative like most do, but I wanted him to tell me and he did to his credit. For right now he is in the friend category.

Guy 2(Drama Boy)-Is also very intelligent and funny. I am not physically attracted to him, BUT I am not going to let that stop me from getting to know a great guy! We met for coffee and it was very awkward as most first meetings are but we still had a great conversation. He is also in the friend category.

Guy 3(The Teacher)-Is cute from the one picture I’ve seen of him. We’ve exchanged texts and talked on the phone and I liked his voice. His friend was having a little get together at one of the local bars in the gayborhood and he wanted me to stop by. I told him I couldn’t meet him because I didn’t want to meet all his friends. I don’t think it’s fair for me to meet him under those conditions. He was in my area in the morning and I told him that we could meet for coffee. We didn’t meet in the morning but he texted me and told me he really wanted to meet me. I said again we can meet for coffee after he was finished, he didn’t respond. I don’t know about him, but he’s going to have to try a little harder to get me.

Well those are my options as of late, not a bad starting point at all. I want more options though. I sound so ungrateful but I’m 22 and a VIRGIN!!! I really need the basics met; physical attraction, emotional connection and a big…well that’s negotiable. I plan on remaining in contact with all three because I want some gay male friends and 2 out of 3 seem like they could be great friends. I think it’s so funny that these guys are into me when the guys who I want are just not that into me. I’m in such a good place right now and I plan on being in an even better place by the end of the year. That includes a new car, my own place, a great job and an amazing boyfriend! Would love to hear about your dating experiences and what you think about mine. Tell me about it!